Thanks for all the kind words fellas. Basically it was a t junction i drive through about 5 times a day, looked right, looked left and nothing whatsoever either way. Pulled out while still looking left and there was a car right infront of me, god knows how he appeared there so quickly :?

Anyways i just glanced in time but it was too late, hit a mk3 5 door golf at about 5/10 mph

His bumper is snapped a tiny bit where as the 5... well lets just say i was nearly in tears.
Matey has agreed not to go down the insurance route if i pay for damages so hopefully thats whats going to happen!

Bit of hope lol.
New plans are markeys louvred bonnet as a replacement, new slam panel welded in, new n/s headlight, new clear indicators, new bumper.
Seems to be that all the pipework is fine so lucky for that atleast. I think the fan has taken a slight knock but still working. Chin up!